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IMAGO Relationship Therapy

When it comes to resolving challenges in your relationship, it can be difficult to find the right approach, and not all therapies are created equal. Often when I ask a couple to tell me about the circumstances that have brought them into therapy, I’m told “We can’t communicate,” and “We don’t know how to deal with conflict.” It’s helpful for couples to learn how to recalibrate their communications, and to understand the underlying dynamics that have led to their disconnect. In therapy, we do that by engaging in intentional dialog, a process that helps both partners to feel that they are finally being heard. As an IMAGO therapist, I don’t view conflict as catastrophe, but rather as an opportunity for growth. This approach to therapy works to help couples find – or restore – the connection and the intimacy that’s been missing in their relationship, rather than just focusing on the problems that have developed over time.

Getting the Love You Want Couples Workshops

alt text Believe it or not, it’s possible to transform your relationship in just one weekend! IMAGO clinicians agree that a GTLYW workshop is the equivalent of 3-6 months of couples’ therapy.

Based on the theory and exercises described in the NY Times Bestselling book by Harville Hendrix, Ph.D. and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph.D, the Getting The Love You Want® Couples Workshop teaches you and your partner how to move your relationship toward a fulfilling partnership. It's a transformative journey that guides couples with practical tools and strategies to create satisfying and long-lasting relationships.

The workshop is designed as an educational experience. It may be therapeutic in terms of healing, and it may even be transformative, but it’s not couples therapy or group therapy. You’re welcome to share with the group, but it’s certainly not required. Most exercises are done between you and your partner, in a quiet setting. The added benefit is that by learning in a collaborative environment, with a few other couples, you begin to realize that you and your partner are experiencing many of the very same challenges that other couples have. The sense of isolation and distress that couples have when they’re in conflict dissipates with the group experience. Relationships are hard for everyone – this is a universal concept; IMAGO workshops are attended by thousands of couples in 20 countries, on five continents! Why is this? Because they’re highly effective.

What to Expect in the Workshop

2.5 day format, beginning on Friday night and wrapping up on Sunday afternoon
Getting the Love You Want manual and demonstrations of proven techniques
Vision planning to move your relationship from ordinary to extraordinary
Practice opportunities to reinforce the new skills you acquire with your partner throughout the weekend.

Though this is a group workshop, space and time are provided for private conversations that allow each couple to explore their own dynamics without group interaction. You are not required to share in any way. Feedback following the workshop informs that this experience feels safe, confidential, and comfortable.

Ready to strengthen your relationship? Contact me today to learn more about Getting the Love You Want Couples Workshops.

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What clients are saying

Katey is straight forward and extremely easy to open up to. She always has wise and practical input. She helped me to navigate a difficult situation and I'm so grateful.

We felt pretty hopeless in our marriage and decided to give it one last shot in therapy, and I'm so glad that our friend suggested that we work with Katey. It wasn't easy to repair the years of hurt, but we learned new ways to deal with our conflicts and to really talk to each other. We're happier now and closer than ever before.

Katey was and has been a pleasure to work with. Working with her individually I learned about myself and grew post divorce. It was a low in my life that was hard to navigate but thankfully I gained tools and coping mechanisms through working with Katey. Katey then helped me navigate life with my wife. If you’re willing to work whether individually or as a couple I highly recommend Katey’s services.

I came to Katey during a time of significant personal loss while also managing career challenges. Her unique background as both a former executive and therapist gave her valuable insight into workplace dynamics alongside personal and family relationships. What sets Katey apart is her ability to validate your experiences while helping you gain perspective on your emotions and patterns of thinking. She helped me work through multiple complex situations simultaneously, leading me back to a more positive outlook. Her approach combines genuine empathy with practical guidance, making her especially effective for professionals navigating both personal and work-life challenges.

I felt that group therapy with Katey offered a safe place to talk about my experiences in unhealthy relationships. I felt supported and encouraged to make changes in my life.

Our adult kids were making blending our families impossible. We were worried that they'd never get along, and that they'd ruin all that was good between the two of us. Katey met with all of us together and helped us to set some reasonable expectations with the kids, while prioritizing our new marriage. Now family get togethers aren't as stressful, and our relationship has never been better!

Therapy with Katey has made the most positive difference in my life. I'm so grateful for her words of wisdom and the skills I learned through counseling. The level of care that she provided during my most difficult time was far and above what I expected from any therapist.

I never thought that trust could be restored after the affair, but Katey taught us a new love language called IMAGO, and it really works!

My ex and I were struggling to co-parent after our divorce. Katey helped me to set aside the guilt and shame I had about making our kids' lives more difficult, and to focus on the next chapter. I know now that the kids will be OK, and so will I.

Katey is straight forward and extremely easy to open up to. She always has wise and practical input. She helped me to navigate a difficult situation and I'm so grateful.

I felt that group therapy with Katey offered a safe place to talk about my experiences in unhealthy relationships. I felt supported and encouraged to make changes in my life.

I never thought that trust could be restored after the affair, but Katey taught us a new love language called IMAGO, and it really works!

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Individual Therapy

In-person sessions are offered in Austin and North Dallas.

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Couple or Family Therapy

Let’s work together to create the connection you desire in your relationship. As an IMAGO certified marriage and family therapist, I help couples and families find—or restore—the closeness and understanding that may be missing. Through collaborative conversation in a welcoming space, we’ll explore ways to communicate better and resolve conflicts that might feel overwhelming right now. With offices in both West Plano and Westlake, I offer flexible evening and weekend appointments to fit your schedule. Whether you’re navigating daily relationship challenges, seeking couples therapy or marriage counseling, looking for help with family therapy, or facing a crucial turning point in your life together, therapy can help you move toward meaningful change—and it starts with a conversation.

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Private Intensive Couples Retreat

A private couples intensive is an ideal way to move your relationship from one stage of development into the next.